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Get Back Your Ex By Becoming Less Attainable And More Of A Challenge For Her
You used to be a challenge for her. You had a high significance and she was initially irresistibly fascinated by you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I'm going to make a wild guess here, but could it be that as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her? And can it be that right now, you're absolutely no challenge for her? Not to mention that she understands that if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and wrapped around her finger by simply saying the word?
I'm going to be crude here, nevertheless as you may already know, to become a challenge again you need to demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality does not have any control over you any longer. Contemplate what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think about what it's like when you keep on doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are implying to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other options.
She won't respect you again until you reject her dominance over you. Thankfully you are doing that now by not specifically communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure you stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Do not be "buddies" with her, as that rewards her with the continuing consent of power over you while providing her a convenient excuse to stay broken up. (She justifies that she's letting you down easy doing this, assuaging virtually any culpability she may feel.)
However, make sure to keep her locked in with your stuff. In all likelihood a lot of your possessions are at her residence, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She might get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it back.
The ideal answer to this is definitely "No, not yet. The justification is simply because her holding onto your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.
For the next three weeks, you must completely accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you're an independent man now. Take what transpired with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You've got a wonderful chance to revolutionize your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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